An Investigation Into Living Fully

Live life to the fullest.

It’s a common phrase. It’s hard to go for very long without hearing it or something that shares the sentiment.

One of the most famous versions of this idea was published in 1854:
“I went to the woods because I wished to live deliberately, to front only the essential facts of life, and see if I could not learn what it had to teach, and not, when I came to die, discover that I had not lived…I wanted to live deep and suck out all the marrow of life.”

So we know and love the idea. But what does it mean to live life to the fullest?

We know what it doesn’t mean. It’s not sitting in the couch, watching TV. It’s not checking email or being bored. For most people, it’s not their job. That’s the easy part. But what does it mean?

For Thoreau it was living Spartan-like on Walden Pond.

For others it might include traveling around the world. Perhaps it’s seeking adventures like rock climbing or hang gliding. Or learning how to speak Italian or play the guitar.
Maybe that means helping others, volunteering at a shelter or raising funds for a charity.

I’m still not exactly sure what it means for me. So far in my life, it’s always meant making stuff.

To this point in my life, I’ve created:

• two books (one novel and one personal essay collection)
• four short films
• a cookbook
• a youtube series
• a podcast
• two blogs: personal and family
• two albums in a high school band
• a twitter account where I pretend to be a comedian
• a restaurant concept with full menu
• two web riddles
• a side business designing book covers

All of them (except for the cookbook) are available to the public on the internet. Everything (except for the book cover business) has basically made no money. The books are the only things that aren’t free, and no one buys them anyways.

So I’ve made all these things. What does it get me? Have I really lived life more than someone who hasn’t created things like this?

No, I don’t think so. But I also don’t know how else for me to live to the fullest.

So what does it mean? I think it’s easy to look at someone like Leonardo da Vinci and say he really lived to the fullest. He was many things and is well-known for his inventions and art. Even if we focus only on his paintings, I think most people would say he contributed to society and lived fully.
But what if we imagine someone living at the same time as Leonardo, let’s call him Reonardo da Pinci. Say he made the exact same paintings and sculptures and inventions, but he didn’t have any connections (or maybe he’s just shy) and so all of his works stayed in his basement and never saw the light of day. Did Reonardo live as full as Leonardo?

It seems that yes, if they did the same things, they lived equally full lives. The difference is that outside observers know that Leonardo did, while not knowing that Reonardo did. So for me, I think it’s about what you do, not about who sees it.

So I’ve been going on and on and don’t know that I’ve managed to get to the point yet.

What should I do to get the most out of the rest of my life?

I’m not sure what the future holds for me. I could learn new skills (learning Italian and the guitar were former goals of mine). I can do things that I’ve never done before, like a Tough Mudder course or skydiving. I can continue traveling as often as possible.

One of my goals is to leave the world a more interesting place than I found it. On first blush it seems unattainable, to affect the world in such a way. But there’s a way to interpret it that almost anyone would qualify: if a person creates anything that is interesting, from a restaurant to a blog post, then they effectively have made the world more interesting.

So who knows? Maybe something with photography. Perhaps I’ll build a board game or design a frisbee golf course. Odds are, it’ll probably involve making something.

Introducing the Chiefs Hit List

I debuted the Avalanche Hit List back in 2013. This feels like a tremendous oversight.

This list goes back to my childhood when I saw the Chiefs beat the Raiders and Eagles. I've also seen the Chiefs lose to the Chargers and Jaguars, for an all-time record of 5-2 at Arrowhead.

Edit: I saw the Chiefs beat the Raiders on December 8, 2016. My record at Arrowhead improved to 6-2 but I didn't get to cross off another team.

My First Red Rocks Concert

I first heard about Red Rocks Amphitheater because of 311. They had played there in 1996, 1997, 2000. I don't remember exactly how this venue became important to me  (they didn't make a dvd or anything) but when I visited Colorado for the first time in 2004, I made a point of visiting Red Rocks. 

It's amazingly beautiful. I took Mark for a hike there in 2012. I've taken my mom, my kids, my in-laws. But I've only ever been there during the day when nothing's going on. Until yesterday. 

Last night I went to my first concert there: Dashboard Confessional and Taking Back Sunday. (In case you're keeping score that's my #2 and #41 favorite band as of 2014.)

I went solo and got there during one of the opening acts, Saosin. (I missed The Early November completely.) 

Before I knew it, Taking Back Sunday came out. They were really good. The singer swung his microphone around constantly, including around his neck and high into the air, never dropped it once.

And then Dashboard Confessional came on.

You could see that his face had aged, but his voice was as good as ever. It's a truly great, unique venue and one of the best concerts I've ever seen.

The standout performance for me was "The Best Deceptions." I'm hoping someone posts it to YouTube eventually.

My Favorite Part of Episode Four

MPG Math

So I recently got a new car and it tracks your average MPG in real-time. Because of this, every time I drive I treat it like a game to get better MPG. I thought it would be fun to see what that means practically.

I'm going to use some ballpark figures.
If I drive 12,000 miles a year, and gas is $2.50, what's the difference between getting 30 mpg and 35 mpg?

30 mpg = $1000 in gas money per year
35 mpg = $857 in gas money per year

That's a savings of $143 every year, reduction of 14.3%. Not too bad.

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You get better mpg on uncongested roads vs stopping and starting all the time. So I wondered, it is cheaper to take a longer route with better mpg or a shorter route with worse mpg?

First up, let's compare a 20 mile route where you can get 30 mpg vs a 25 mile route you could get 35 mpg.

20/30 = $1.67 in gas
25/35 = $1.78 in gas

If your route is 20 miles and you're getting 30 mpg, and you know that you can get 35 mpg on a longer route, it only is cheaper if the longer route is less than 23 miles. But you're still putting more miles on your car. My take is it's generally best to take the shortest route and drive to get the best mpg you can.

LeBron and Durant: NBA Decisions

Two years ago, LeBron had a choice. Having won two titles in Miami, he could have gone anywhere. I wrote about the attractiveness of returning to Cleveland. That worked out pretty well for him. He delivered a championship to the city that needed it most and produced the signature highlight of his career.

One thing about that championship: He was clearly the MVP and was without question amazing. And yet if he does everything exactly the same, but Curry and Thompson make one more three each, then LeBron's story is completely different. No parade in Cleveland. The Warriors set the record for wins in a year + title. They are a dynasty in the making. And people talk about LeBron's poor record in the finals. And that's if LeBron does everything the same. I wrote about this before...when Brady's Patriots went 18-1. Brady led the Pats down the field for a potential game-winning touchdown. And then he's on the sideline for the helmet catch and the moment the Giants win the game. The line between winning and losing a championship is sometimes razor thin, and sometimes has nothing to do with the players that we give the credit/blame to. 

The round before Cleveland wins a title, the Thunder were up 3-1 on the Warriors. 

In Game 6, the Thunder led the whole game and were 3 minutes away from closing out the Warriors in OKC. 

In Game 7, the Thunder come out strong and again lead big before the Warriors come back to win. 

If the Thunder win either of those games, they're in the Finals. Could they beat the Cavs? Yeah, it's a tossup. If they win a title, does Durant and Westbrook re-up in OKC? If they don't win, Durant still might leave, but does he go to the Warriors? Yeah, I guess they'd still be a 73-win team and a great fit, but it might seem funny to go to the team you just beat. Hard to say exactly. But now it's clear that Westbrook isn't sticking with OKC. So the Thunder could let another star walk for nothing or they could try and trade him this year, attempt to get 80 cents on the dollar for him. They are basically in a rebuild now, and they were 3 minutes away from a Finals appearance, potentially a Finals win and locking up their future. 

So now we get to Durant's decision. 

He was drafted by Seattle in 2007 and signed a 4-year contract. 

In 2010, at age 21, he chose to stay in OKC, signing a 5-year extension, ensuring he'd be on the Thunder through 2016. 

Now he's 27 and again has a choice to make. Every team in the league wanted to give him the most money possible to play for them. It's a good position to be in. 

There's all kinds of reasons to pick a place to work/live. I moved across the country to a place where I had no friends because I just wanted to be in Colorado. And I don't regret it at all. I love it here. 

So obviously it's wherever he want's to go, he's earned that choice. But if I was his friend, I'll think about what makes the most sense to me. 

What matters most is winning titles. 

It's not as simple though as going to the best team in this moment, which is obviously Golden State. It's about going to the team that will give you the most chances over the next 6ish years, when you're still in your prime. 

To get the most money, you have to sign a 1+1 deal, opt-out and then sign a new deal when the cap is even bigger. But if you go to the Warriors in 2016 and then go to the T-Wolves once their stars are ready and then to the 76ers when their picks are in their prime, just chasing the current best team, then you really look like a moocher. 

So I think you have to imagine that you're going to be with this next team for a bit, even though you're signing a short-term deal for financial reasons. With that in mind, I thought Boston made a lot of sense. They've got some decent players, plus a slew of draft picks and they're in the East which is still going to be weak for a while longer. 

It's definitely a better story for your legacy to be the Superstar that wins in Boston than joining a 73-win team. 

But here's the thing about LeBron's return to Cleveland that made for an incredible story: he already had two rings. And the first is the hardest to get. 

Durant still has many great seasons ahead of him, but he doesn't want to be Malone, Iverson, or Barkley, great players that never won titles. So I can definitely see the appeal in joining a team with a great coach, a play style that fits your own, and by the way, an amazing group of players that can make everyone more efficient. It's definitely the best choice to try and win a title in 2017. 

Does it carry a risk, if the Warriors only win 60 games and are the #2 seed in the West, that people decide acquiring Durant was a mistake? Eh....not really. His game is really built for their offense and defense, so it would be shitty for anyone to criticize adding him no matter how many wins they get. 

So if you're Durant, it's a good move. And if you're the Warriors, it's a dream come true. If you're a Warriors fan, it's beyond belief. 

And yet, there's plenty of people who are ragging on him for picking the Warriors, because they're too good.

And I get that on an emotional level. It sucks for fans of other teams. And even though any team could win, the Warriors are now 2-3 favorites. In a 30-team league, you'd have to put up $150 to win $100. Right now you'd only have to put up 3 bucks on the Thunder to win $100.

A system where superstars are spread out is more interesting as a general sports fan. Imagine if the 30 best players in the league were mandated to be on different teams. It would really feel like LeBron's Cavs vs Curry's Warriors vs Klay's Kings vs Durant's Celtics vs Westbrook's Thunder. And we'd get to see which star came out on top and it would prove to us that say LeBron was the best player of his generation because him + role players beat Curry + role players. 

But that's now what we have. We have a system that is heavily, heavily about building the best team, not just seeing who gets lucky enough to draft the best player. And the Warriors have done the best job of building the best team on paper. Just like the Seahawks built a Championship team because they had a Pro Bowl QB on a rookie deal, the Warriors are underpaying Curry and able to build around him. It's unfair to expect that Durant should pick a shittier team for the sake of sports fans interests.

I certainly want to create the best ads that I can and win the most awards that I can. Shouldn't I be expected to go to the agency that gives me that best opportunity? Well...yes. But also maybe. The most famous agency in the country is Wieden + Kennedy in Portland. They do amazing work like this ad for Coca-Cola. But if I worked for them, I would be a little fish in a big pond. If I work my way up at a smaller agency achieving success on a smaller scale, I could be a decent sized-fish in a small pond. 

Of course, I'm not in an industry where you're only measured by winning championships. I'm also not Kevin Durant, so I'm not sure how helpful that analogy is. But that commercial is pretty nifty.

Ultimately, this is the best example of: Don't hate the player, hate the game. The system we have allows for this. If you don't like it, hate the system. 

So five paragraphs up, I used a hypothetical example of the 30 best players on 30 different teams. Obviously that's ridiculous. But what if there was some sort of solution to super teams?

Right now, you hear the term max contract a lot. The simple version is that players are generally allowed to earn 25% or 30% of the cap, depending on how long they've been in the league. 

But what if a team was only allowed to have one "Tier One" contract of say 35%. Then allowed to have a Tier Two contract of 25%. And all other contracts must be under 20%. The point isn't the exact numbers, but the idea that you couldn't make a big three of players that all get paid 25%--if you want to keep Curry and Durant for their next contract one's gotta take a pay cut, or ideally they would both want the 35% and go to separate teams. 

Regardless of all of this, good for Durant. I think the Warriors offense will certainly be fun to watch. 

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I have a bonus LeBron theory that I've never shared. 

So LeBron plays 7 seasons in Cleveland. (When I think about those days I think about this game that I saw in a NYC bar. Just incredible.) His last season there, the 2009-2010 Cavs, here were the players besides LeBron leading the team in minutes:

Mo Williams

Anthony Parker

Anderson Varejeo

J.J. Hickson

Delonte West

That team is DOGSHIT! That team was the #1 seed in the East!

Even with the best player in the world, their odds of winning a title in the next 6 years were not great. With LeBron, they weren't getting high draft picks. So they were acquiring players like a 37-year-old Shaq to try and get over the hump. It wasn't working. 

So here's my theory. The best way for LeBron to deliver a Championship to Cleveland was by leaving. 

I'm not saying that LeBron consciously knew this or planned this. And he could never say it because of the implication. But I think it's true. 

In 2011 without LeBron they went from the #1 seed to 19-63. They earned the #4 pick in the lottery. And they went into rebuild mode, trading Mo Williams and Jamario Moon for Baron Davis and the Clippers first round pick. The Cavs had a 19% chance of winning the lottery with their own pick and a 3% chance of winning it with the Clippers pick. They won it with the Clippers pick and used it to get Kyrie at #1. Their own pick was now #4 so they used that to draft Tristan Thompson. 

Amazingly the rebuilding Cavs would draft #1 again in 2013 and 2014. Those picks were used on Bennett and Wiggins and would be traded to get Kevin Love. 

And even with that incredible and lucky rebuild effort, the 2016 Cavs barely won the title because there was a Golden State juggernaut. 

So no, I don't think LeBron could have willed his way to a title in Cleveland without those picks. Which means taking his talents to South Beach was the best thing he ever did for the Cavaliers.

I Never Click The Right One

Never Let The Ball Touch The Ground

My First New Car

The first car I ever drove was a blue Ford Tempo that was previously my Dad's car.
Then I drove a green Mazda Protege that was previously my Mom's car.
Then I drove a gray Toyota Corolla that was previously Brit's car.
Then I drove a silver Toyota Corolla that was previously Brit's Mom's car.

So this is the first car I've ever gotten to choose. It's also the first new car I've ever had. It also happens to be the first Honda and first black car. I remember wanting a black car back in college.

The silver Corolla had a lot of miles on it. It was time.

NHL 16 Highlight

Just picked up this game as it dropped to $30. (Was released in September 2015 at the standard price of $60. I generally wait 6-12 months for all games to halve in price.)

The Best Goal I've Scored So Far

One Person Can't Be Wrong!

https://medium.com/dont-get-your-hopes-up

Awkward

food journal

Here all the months that I've logged at least one day in my food journal, which I only do when I'm trying to lose weight.